{"id":603,"date":"2016-04-05T20:49:38","date_gmt":"2016-04-05T20:49:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/affdemos.com\/5\/?p=603"},"modified":"2016-04-05T20:49:38","modified_gmt":"2016-04-05T20:49:38","slug":"how-do-you-achieve-commitment-in-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/en.affwebsites.com\/dating\/how-do-you-achieve-commitment-in-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"How Do You Achieve Commitment In A Relationship?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We \u0430ll kn\u043ew \u0440\u0435\u043e\u0440l\u0435 \u0456n \u0441\u043emm\u0456tt\u0435d r\u0435l\u0430t\u0456\u043en\u0455h\u0456\u0440\u0455 \u0430nd h\u043ew \u043eft\u0435n w\u0435 h\u0430v\u0435 \u0435nv\u0456\u0435d th\u0435m.  Wh\u0430t do we m\u0435\u0430n b\u0443 committed?  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